May you be true to yourself above all else. Be true to yourself. Be the best of what you can be. Imagine the best person, and start carving yourself into that person. Pick away at the traits, your traits, keep the keepers, and set aside the throwaways.
Stop being a hoarder on bad traits. If you honestly don’t like something about yourself, then just stop doing it. Stop being it. You don’t have to keep carrying that luggage simply because it’s what or who you’ve always been.
Stop living half lies, and move on. If you’re in a relationship and feel stuck, then do something about it. Either work that shit out, and start ironing the kinks, or end it. Move on. Whether it be a friendship, a place of work, a sibling, or a even a spouse. But do try to work it out starting from a place of love.
You owe it to yourself to live your life with honesty, love and joy. It is, after all, Christmas, and you deserve the gift of joy. Don’t wait for it to come to you in a crate marked “Ragile.” Take it. Own it. Be it.